Post 132591 by roomthreeseventeen deleted for the following reason: The main link here is a pretty short essay that mostly leaves folks debating the specific details of this one interaction and its description, rather than the core issues. Please consider reposting this in a way that won't invite fights about how representative this one short blog post might be for transgender people trying to navigate crucial health care issues, and feel free to contact us if you have questions. -- taz