Post 119669 by roomthreeseventeen deleted for the following reason: I get that this comes from every good place but a single link Reddit repost to another blog on a topic that we've talked about consistently and hotly since the dawn of this website is maybe not such a great "here is something neat I found on the web" thing and, more to the point, seems to be just asking for a long "Yes I agree" thread with the occasional argument with disagreeers. -- jessamyn